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    <title>Shameful Parenting</title>
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          An inmate at Mule Creek State Prison once gave me his perspective on the criminal justice system: &amp;quot;You take a dog, lock it in a tiny cage, then kick it every morning. After five years of this you reach down to let the dog out, and you&#039;re surprised when it bites your hand.&amp;quot;&lt;br /&gt;
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This reminds me of some parenting I&#039;ve seen&amp;mdash;moms and dads who yell at their naughty teen and publicly ridicule her, and then are surprised when she continues to act out.&lt;br /&gt;
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&lt;a href=&#034;http://www.realjustice.org/library/braithwaite06.html&#034; target=&#034;_blank&#034;&gt;John Braithwaite&lt;/a&gt; 2006 winner of the Stockholm Prize in Criminology, studies the kinds of shame that work, and the kinds that don&#039;t. I&#039;d like to share a few of his ideas. Braithwaite distinguishes between two kinds of shame:&lt;br /&gt;
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    &lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Stigmatic shaming: &lt;/strong&gt;Punishments that destroy the bonds between the offender and the community. This is what judges are doing when they make an offender post a sign saying, &amp;quot;a violent felon lives here,&amp;quot; or a bumper sticker saying &amp;quot;I am a drunk driver.&amp;quot;&lt;/li&gt;
    &lt;li&gt;&lt;strong&gt;Re-integrative shaming: &lt;/strong&gt;These are punishments that give the offender the opportunity to rejoin the community as a law-abiding citizen. The offender is required to express remorse, apologize to the victim, and repair the harm done by the crime.&lt;/li&gt;
&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&#034;http://www.influencerbook.com:80/blog/influencer/1199828940000.html&#034;&gt;Read more...&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
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    <pubDate>Tue, 08 Jan 2008 21:49:00 GMT</pubDate>
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